De-Clutter my Life: Photo Update

RedefiningPerfectPhotoDeClutterA couple weeks back I mentioned that I’d be de-cluttering my photos, and my house, and etc.

I haven’t been dedicated to doing it every single day, because it’s a huge job.  However, I’ve gone through quite a few folders.  I’ve started with the least overwhelming-the non-family pictures, and I haven’t touched any of my “pre-2010” folders yet.

Still, I started with 29,428 files.

I’ve added about 120 photos that I’ve taken on excursions.

Even with the added photos, my numbers are down to 24,660.

Calculated out, that’s 4,880 photos deleted in two weeks. They need far better organization and some editing, but the doubles are deleted, the blurry shots are gone, and my files are definitely trimmer.

I’m going to keep going, and hopefully in two weeks when I check back in, I’ll have an even bigger drop to report (or more organization, whatever I tackle this go-round).

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In other news – I’ve started working on de-cluttering the house, too. I dove head-first into my kitchen today and made huge leaps with that. My house is a far bigger prospect that’s going to take many weeks and lots of baby steps. It’s nice to get something accomplished, though.

What Child is This – #MFRWHooks

SantaMaybe_MEDReady for another Book Hook?

Since you all enjoyed my reunion/Christmas story intro last week, I’m going to stick with it. Remember as you read, Ivy and Alan last saw each other (and slept together) 8 years ago. There is more to this scene, to be shown in the coming weeks…but I’m sure you can guess what conclusions are being leapt to here:

“Justina. Come here, baby.” Ivy waved over the young girl and smoothed her hand over the chestnut hair when she drew close. Justina pressed into her side and Ivy looked up at Alan. “This is Justina, my daughter. Justina, this is an old friend of mine. It’s Miss Dotty’s son. You’ve seen his picture at her house.”

“Hello.” Justina’s voice was small and timid, her greeting out of required politeness.

“Hello.” Alan’s jaw set tight. “It’s nice to meet you. How old are you?”

“Seven.”

That did it. Alan shut down cold as ice, anger clouding the hints of regret he’d carried a few seconds ago.

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Alan Richards returns to Lake Point for the holidays, counting the minutes until he can accomplish the dreaded goal of dealing with his aging parents and get back to the city. Finding his former soul mate living in the town they left together and swore they’d never return to tosses his ordered plans right on their head.

Ivy Nowell has never looked back since she left the city and her ballet career to raise her daughter in Lake Point. Alan’s homecoming dredges up old hurts and the love she never quite let go, but he hasn’t changed, with his relentless commitment to goals that differ completely from hers.

The attraction and instant understanding between them lingers, but neither are who they used to be. Alan wants to give it a chance, but Ivy is worried he’ll change his mind and won’t risk hurting her daughter.

It’ll take Santa and all his magic to keep them from walking away from each other again, maybe for forever this time.

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Top Ten Tuesday – Dream Family Vacations

Top 10 Dream Family VacationsAt this point in our life, a family vacation is a dream…so this list is appropriate.

I’d love to take my kids on vacation just about anywhere. Some of these are more realistic than others, but they’re al ideas I’ve had.

10. Disney.  Of course. I’d be happy with Disney World visits – or a Disney Cruise. I think my kids would get a total kick out of it.

9. Washington D.C. As a former nearly-resident, I’d love to take my kids to see the nations capital.

8. Hawaii.  Okay, this is a dream family or no…I just always wanted to go. 🙂

7. California.  Yup, the state, not a specific place.  My parents took my brother and I when I was in middle school.  We drove the coastline, and back up through-started in Fresno, ended in San Fran.  It was amazing, and while I’d never want to live there, California is a cool place to visit.

6. Yellowstone. A given, right?

5. Florida – the Gulf beaches. This was Erik’s idea, and I agree. Every time we went to Florida, we always went to the beaches, not just the hot attractions.

4. A drive around the country. I mean the whole country. A friend of mine did a Great American Road Trip last year. I think that’s an awesome idea.

3. Gatlinburg. A “simple” vacation – just renting a cabin in the mountains and enjoying the time away. This is on the docket for “maybe next year”.

2. Colonial Williamsburg/Busch Gardens.  I’ve been & LOVE.  Plus, we could visit w/ my BFF Jess and her family, and even stay with them for a few days.  This is also on the “maybe next year” list.

1. Universal Studios.  I mean, what Geek family wouldn’t want to?  Especially one with a Harry Potter obsessed little one like Kennedy.  She’d kill to see Hogsmeade…and this summer they’re going to open Diagon Alley.  I think Kennedy and I would be totally geeked out there.

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And that’s my list for this week.  Many big dreams, a couple of realistic ones. Just need to start those savings jars.

What about you? What are your dream family vacation destinations? I’m always looking for new recommendations!

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Every Day I Wake Up Afraid – Pour Your Heart Out

Name HereEvery day I wake up, and my first thought is of my kids.

My first emotion is fear.

Will today be the day Kennedy gets sick? Maybe sick enough for the hospital?

Will today be the day Molly has a breakdown? Will I need to go to school because she isn’t manageable?

Will today be the day Denver ends up in the hospital…again?

Every parent has fears and worries, and mine aren’t “worse” – they’re just different.

But they’re real.

There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t suffer through the torments of worry. Whether through  a passing thought, or an entire run through of possible calamity. Whether for one child, or another, or even all. Whether triggered by a cough, or a teacher email, or just my overall sense of awareness.

It’s always there, lurking, leering, waiting to pounce.

Every day I wake up afraid.

Every day I shove the fear aside and face the day.

I don’t have a choice, and I don’t want one.  So long as I can push the fear aside I will.  It’s a defense mechanism. Preparing me for the worst, so the every day can feel better for me. So I can see the bright side when things look horrifically dark.  So when the worst does happen, I am prepared. I am ready for the hospital check in. I am ready for the teacher meeting. I am ready for the specialist appointment.

I’ll embrace the daily fear, as long as I can continue to see the daily joy.

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Written for Things I can’t Say’s Pour Your Heart Out
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Tuesday Tales – End – Natural Selection

Leilyn2Welcome back to Tuesday Tales!  This weeks prompt is End.

A week has passed and Leilyn has been learning and hunting…and Dell has been avoiding (under orders in part, and also b/c he’s trying to be nice).  

However, Leilyn takes exception to how she’s being “handled”:

For one week the topic had been avoided and Dell was getting more frustrated. While he understood Leilyn needed time to adjust, he wanted to give her a reason not to run. Every night he battled against sleep to keep an eye on her.

In his gut he knew she wanted to run before the West Virginia pack caught up to her, and they would. Dell had seen the mark on her ankle, most likely made when she was still an infant. It was likely Leilyn had no idea what it was, or thought it was a birthmark, but it wasn’t.

It was a mark of possession, probably the only way they were able to keep her from returning to her true pack once she grew into her Were form. The mark wouldn’t make it impossible to keep her by Dell’s side, where she belonged, but it would be enough for the one that claimed her to track her. No matter where she went.

The mark would fade with time and distance from its creator, and when Dell claimed her as his mate, but for now she had a target on her back.

Worse, that target would bring the very pack that had attacked and murdered many of Dell’s pack back to their doorstep. Everyone in the pack was aware, and the mood in the town had shifted to restlessness, unease. Patrols had increased even after the Cougar pack had moved on further west.

At the bank of the river Dell’s father, Jasper, stood with Leilyn. Jasper had insisted on leading Leilyn on her hunts. Dell had remained human under the direct insistence of his Alpha. Even though he knew it was to hold off overwhelming Leilyn further by figuring out they were mates, Dell didn’t care for it.

After that morning’s hunt, Jasper and Leilyn had remained on the river bank for almost two hours. Dell twitched with impatience, ready to move downwind to hear what they were discussing.

He didn’t have to, as Jasper finally turned and strode up the hill toward Dell. A few feet away, Jasper nodded. “She’ll need you now. The pack is close.”

“How long?” Dell knew it was coming, but his stomach turned at the thought of the upcoming battle.

“Two days at best, sooner if they stay Were and come in hot like they did last time.” Jasper squeezed his shoulder. “The mark is getting darker. He must have a witch on his side.”

Dell nodded. He’d guessed as much. Without another word, he jogged toward the river, slowing a few feet behind Leilyn.

She didn’t move as he approached, her arms folded across her chest. “I’m afraid I upset your father.”

“What?” Dell glanced behind him, but Jasper was already out of sight. “He said nothing of the sort. Why do you think you upset him?”

“I told him I didn’t appreciate what he was doing.”

“Which is?”

“Two things wrapped into one.” She dropped her arms, but her gaze remained up-river. “He’s keeping us apart to keep us from acting on instinct, and he’s doing so to use me as bait.”

He stepped closer. “Explain.”

“I’m not a total idiot, although I was kept clueless about much of pack politics in what I now realize was an intentional misdirection. Plus, Byron has been helping me learn what I was lied to about.”

“That’s not explaining.”

“Birthmarks don’t get darker.” She held out her leg, the bare ankle and foot a tanned, stark relief against the white snow. On her ankle sat the mark, a small circle with three arcs of color bursting from it. The week before the mark had been barely distinguishable from her flesh, but now it shone bright red.

He frowned. “That’s been helped along by a witch.”

“It means he’s getting closer, although I could tell that myself. I can feel it. This is all going to come to an end soon. One way or another.”

“You can’t run from it.”

“I did once.”

“You can’t run from me.”

“I know.” She finally turned toward him. Her features remained stoic, and he couldn’t quite tell what she was feeling. “Instinct tells me as much. Although neither your nor your father would bother to tell me why.”

“Leilyn.”

“I’ve been lied to my whole life. You seem to think you can resolve my turmoil with more lies?”

“I wasn’t lying. I was…”

“What?”

“Procrastinating?” Even to his ears, it sounded weak.

She snorted and turned away. “It will take all your Alpha power to take me to your bed now and erase this mark. Would you do that?”

“Never.” The fierce growl in his words was pure Were anger. “I would never force you into my bed.”

“It’s going to take more than instinct. So this mark is stuck here, and they are coming. I hope you’re ready for a fight that isn’t in anyway fair. They fight dirty.”

“I know, and we’re ready.” Dell stepped closer. “What about you? Will you be with us? Or will you go back to them?”

“I don’t know. I guess I have about…” She tilted her head, her lips pursed as she thought. “Thirty one hours to figure it out. So do you.”

“What do you mean by that?”

“Exactly.”

 

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