In The Eyes Of The Young

[flickr id=”7196830566″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”left”]Mother’s Day happens when the kids are still in school.  So, through similar sheets of papers from the school I got to see what I look like in the eyes of my little ones.

Molly says so many things that are accurate (thankfully she was not asked my age ~ahem~).

1. My favorite drink is “Casey’s drink” (I get many fountain pops from Casey’s)
2. My favorite TV show is Big Bang. (Why yes, yes it is)
3. For fun I play on the computer. (Who? Me?)
4. Around the house I “wash jeans and chlothes” (I’m afraid she is very very correct on this one. All. The. Time.)
5. My favorite thing is…..the computer. (It is in the top…of “things”.)
6. The best thing is “she is good to do exercise” (not lately b/c I’m injured, but I’m surprised the girls put this in there)
7. No, the best thing is “she hugs me,” or “she kisses me good night”, no, the absolute best thing is “she loves me.” (No, baby…the best thing is that you KNOW that and love me back in your own special way)
8. If she was a mom she would “go on comter, and wash dishes, and cook dinner. I’d be a super nice mom like you!”
9. Last, but not least, she says what makes me special is I’m “pretty”.

All so very sweet and special…seeing what she sees.  (For the record she did fill out one of these for Erik too…let’s just say there was a lot of mention of “Family Guy” on it ~giggle~  She’s a perceptive little beast).

[flickr id=”7196832638″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”right”]  Kennedy had a couple of similar, but different questions.  Unfortunately she was asked my age…

1. My age appeared twice. Once I was listed as “93” the other time “30”. Truthfully, I’m somewhere between…MUCH closer to 30.
2. I like to “mac cake”, and my favorite food it “lettuce”. (A sign I’ve been dieting, perhaps? I like to make cake, but eat lettuce…)
3. To relax I “lay on the bed”, “watch TV” (2 different times)
4. I like to shop “at Casey’s” (I think I go there too much…O.o)
5. What she loves most is that I “love flowers”
6. If she could buy me anything it would be “a pet dog.” (awww)
7. What I do while she’s at school? Why, I “go running”.
8. I’m really good at “working on the computer”
9. My mom is as pretty as  “a flower”, sweet as “a butterfly”, smart as “a heart” (??), most of all, special as “a rose”
10. And my favorite…and the most accurate statement is that what makes me so special is that “I love her” (Yes, Kennedy…the fact that you love me, and your sister loves me, is what makes me so special)

*~*~*

I have to say that I loved reading these…seeing how their minds work, and how they see me. one of the best gifts ever.

 

And Then I Became a Professional School Chaperone – For Free

[flickr id=”7089103379″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”left”]It’s never a good thing when in the middle of a class ‘event’ with many parents present – the teacher singles you out and pulls you aside before you can leave.

“Just for a moment.”

Last week the class had a field trip.

Field Trip = Change in Routine.

Change in Routine = Over-Stimulated Molly.

The teacher let us know that on the trip Molly had a bit of trouble.  She never stopped. Once.  Nearly running into the street at one point.  If Teacher had to pull her attention away or let go of Molly’s hand for even a second, Molly used that to run off.

Eventually one of the parents caught on and became Molly’s ‘keeper’ for the rest of the field trip – but it was a bit of a hectic day.

So now it’s been decided that going forward Molly will need a ‘keeper’ on any field trips. It’s not something that’s likely to end up on the IEP, but it’s something the teachers will be aware of.

It is our decision to also make them aware that I will be her ‘keeper’.

So I will be the official Molly-Chaperone for all future field trips.

Even the ones I usually avoid.

Fun.

 

Spinning In Circles

[flickr id=”5888961016″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”left”]We have had birthday parties, track meets, doctor appointments and chaos the past few days. While I try to get my head on straight (and work on the blog redesign ~cough~) I’m going to have a little fun with some random subjects of note.

* Thank you for all of your well-wishes for Erik.  The doctor appointment went really well.  While he does have to go back next year for another endoscopy, the doctor isn’t overly concerned with the findings.  As far as Erik’s continuing symptoms we are on a “Try a little of this…then try a little of that” program.  We’re hoping to find something that works and eases his symptoms.

* Yesterday I finished the (final) self-edits on my novel ~insert cheering and mad boogie dancing on my part~. That means I will begin work on the site redesign pretty hard-core in the next couple of weeks. I plan on a new round of submissions and I want this site to shine by then.  The first changes I make will be mostly cosmetic changes.  After that I’ll be working on more functional changes, but they’ll happen once the feel of the site has been updated.

* Teaching a teenager accountability and empathy is HARD ~insert whining here~.

* My Kennedy has proven finally that she comes from the husbands blood line  She may look just like me…but lately she has been obsessed with cleaning.  That is SO not me.

* We had the girls family birthday party yesterday. They got so many cute clothes…I’m so jealous!  My SIL and MIL got them a ton of new little outfits – and then both my Mom and SIL on my side got them clothes too. We have full closets and the girls cannot WAIT for the warm weather to come back so they can start wearing the skirts upon skirts that they got.

* Hubby bought an elliptical.  I hate the elliptical…but having it sit in my little house, I actually use it because I feel crappy if it just takes up all that room for nothing.  Between that and my continuing love/hate relationship w/ Jillian Michaels & her exercise DVD’s I may just start feeling good about myself again. Maybe.

* I swear, I will be talking about the Bloggy Boot Camp experience soon, after all it is a 45X45 item…but between my straight focus on my novel the past week & the fact that I’m still trying to process everything that went on that day, it’s been relegated to a “Very soon” post.  Hopefully before the end of the week.

* I have a new job application sitting in my kitchen.  It’s a job I’m certain I’ll be able to get (I’m super friendly w/ the managers at this place).  It’s just a matter of “Can I” and “Should I”.  This time I have to very carefully weigh all of the factors and not forget one like I did last year when I tried to work.  I have some new factors to consider this time around, ones that may seal the deal.

*Speaking of jobs, I also have a chance at another possible opportunity.  It’s something that I have to write up a proposal for and see where it goes.  It would be helping out someone local and that really excites me. I just need to sit down and write…especially since that’s part of what I’ll be doing for her…writing. LOL.

* Did I mention that raising teenagers is HARD??  ~headdesk~

The 7 Year Blonde…

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To a father growing older nothing is dearer than a daughter. ~Euripides

You started life as you live it.  On the side – coming in so easy that the doctor wasn’t even prepared.  Blue, but your instant cries brought tears to your Daddy’s eyes.

Despite your desire to sleep nowhere but on someone’s heartbeat, or in your carseat, you were so easy when you were tiny.  A blessing to fill our house even more.

Even as you grew and your struggles began, you continued to touch our hearts. Through your struggles that we made our own, our love for you grew and grew.  Even as you frustrate us, we cherish your unique heart and soul.  Your unique spirit helps us treasure each and every genuine smile.

We love you, Molly…and are so happy and proud to see you become such an incredibly smart and beautiful girl.  A big girl at 7 years old.

Happy Birthday baby!

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Broken Eyes Everywhere

[flickr id=”6921772250″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”left”]Before he was 2 years old, Erik had 7 surgeries on his eyes. Today he still suffers the effects. Astigmatism in both eyes, weak muscles and near-sightedness. His perscription changes every single year enough to need a perscription.

I got my first glasses in 6th grade. My eyes are too bad, but I’m nearsighted.

Denver was 7. Nearsighted.

Now it’s the girls.  In a houseful of 5, not one of us escaped the need for corrective eyewear. [flickr id=”6921772134″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”right”]

Molly is just like her daddy. Astigmatism in both eyes, near-sighted.

Kennedy is (as always) the odd-duck.  One eye is practically perfect.  The other is a mess. Astigmatism, near-sighted. Her glasses are lop-sided in correction.

I wish the girls had been able to escape this fate – but they look darn cute, don’t they?

 

Scattered Thoughts

[flickr id=”6179693357″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”left”] *This morning I met with some wonderful ladies for a mini-conference w/ a talk given by the ever-internet-savvy Heather. It was a good time, I learned a lot, and it woke up something that I’d been thinking about for over a year now.  I have two blogs – and for a scatterbrain like myself it wasn’t working. I feel pressured to come up with twice the posts and then I don’t post at all.  So I’ve made the decision to somehow combine my writing blog (Sadie’s Storylines) into this one.  It’s not a clean mesh by any means – which is what has kept me from doing it for so long – but it’s a necessary one.  After all, my photography is here – why can’t my writing?

*I have been super-stressed in recent weeks.  Many crazy things have happened health-wise and personal-wise that I’ve been feeling awful overwhelmed.  Worst part is a current health-crisis with the hubby (although he’ll not be thrilled that I call it a ‘crisis’).  It’s serious and scary and worst part is we still don’t know what’s going on.  He’s having a procedure in a couple of days and we’re hoping that brings us answers and resolution in the coming months.

*In the next couple of days we’ll be a house full of eye-correction. There will be a forthcoming blog post w/ the cuteness of my girls in their new glasses.

*The teen has been on the roller coaster ride of teen hormones and girls.  This is also inspiring another blog post to be forthcoming.

*Expect some dust as I attend to the first item mentioned on this list – combining my blog.  This will require some redesign and some conflicting posts.  i’ve already transferred over all of my posts from the writing blog – now I just need to organize and clean this place up a bit (this will likely involve a new look of sorts – but nothing drastically different as i just ordered business cards)

*Just 2.5 weeks until I go to Bloggy Boot Camp.  Checking 2 things off my 45X45 (Blog conference & vacay w/ the hubby) in one fell swoop. After failing to get excited about it in the recent chaos, I’m starting to get giggly and eager.

*While there i’m totally going to have a nerd-gasm and go to the Star Trek Exhibit w/ my hubs (thanks Groupon for alerting me to its presence in St. Louis).  It’s geek-heaven.

*Gorgeous weather is leading toward lots of line-drying of clothes. Oh how I love this time of year 🙂

*I recently totally reorganized the hubbies DVD’s. Picture proof coming soon – HUGE and refreshing change.

*I got a new (to us) car. I have to say that despite its age – it is hands down the nicest car we have ever owned (and we have owned a LOT of cars in our 10 year marriage). It makes me very happy. More on that coming soon too 🙂

That’s it for now. Just got the call from Wal-Mart – glasses have come in!