by Sarah | Nov 12, 2013 | All About Denver, Cystic Fibrosis, Hospital, Special Needs
The teen was in the hospital recently.
A brief (in our book) stay at the hospital kept him out of school for approximately a week.
That was, unbelievably in some ways, almost 2 months ago.
Since then his struggle to get back into his previous stellar grades has been immense.
Whether a genuine struggled to get “Back on the horse”
or just general rebellion
the grades have remained low,
assignments unfinished,
and general malaise has centered around school.
I’m sort of ashamed to admit I broke out the story.
The age-old old-farts beginning sentence of “When I was your age”.
Because I once had an 8 week bout of mono.
Out of school for 8 weeks and my grades were BETTER than they’d ever been with me in school.
So I broke out that story.
And ended it with the general rule of thumb in this house.
We don’t let our labels define us.
We don’t let them lead our lives.
No.
Illness isn’t an excuse.
It never will be.
So buck up.
Suck it up.
Do your homework.
And don’t let CF or hospital stays win.
by Sarah | Oct 3, 2013 | All About Denver, Cystic Fibrosis, Hospital, Special Needs, The Teenager
Teenagers are expected to rebel.
When they don’t you worry. I wasn’t huge on rebellion, but I found my own way to rebel – by ignoring my scholastic capabilities.
I never expected to be faced with a whole different sort of rebellion in my kids.
Medical rebellion.
It’s a dangerous game.
The “I feel fine, so I don’t need to maintain” game.
Now we have the new, added complexity of a compression vest.
Something the teen does not want to do.
Already he doesn’t do the things he doesn’t mind, and that only take a few minutes.
Maintaining seems like such a hassle when you’re fine.
Especially to a teenager.
Even a teenager that dreams of being a doctor.
Of all the things in my life that cause me stress and worry.
Medical rebellion resides at the top of the list.
Couldn’t he just give himself a mohawk and wear black and be all emo?
That I could handle.
I lived through that as a teen w/ best friends that weren’t…preppy…at all.
I could handle emo.
This medical rebellion crap?
It sucks.
by Sarah | Sep 18, 2013 | All About Denver, Cystic Fibrosis, Hospital, PICC, Special Needs
The hospital the kids go to for their CF is a teaching hospital. It always has been.
There have been many times we’ve gone to clinic and met new residents or fellows that were learning the craft from our top-notch pulmonologist.
Some don’t stick around for a while, others are around for at least a year.
The changing faces can get confusing when you’re in a long-term treatment plan like we are (or are terrible with names like I am).
When you’re in the hospital there are some definite positives – and definite negatives.
Positive – you have a team of doctors working your case. You know you’re getting the best care and a variety of input on your treatment.
Negative – you have a team of doctors working your case. Every morning each member of that team comes in to check breath sounds. Not all together to get it done once…nope, one by one over the course of an hour.
Positive – There are more nurses and therapists working your treatments and procedures.
Negative – sometimes the room is overcrowded with people each dedicated to your care.
This hospital is the best place for care. I know the people care about my child and making him healthy.
I know that there are many people working his case.
But it’s still overwhelming and frightening.
by Sarah | Sep 16, 2013 | All About Denver, Cystic Fibrosis, Hospital, PICC, Special Needs
320 days.
Not even a full year.
320 days ago Denver was admitted to the hospital for diminished lung sounds and functions. He got sick in two seconds flat, and was in the hospital 2 days later. They wanted to keep him for a couple of weeks, but he was able to go home after a week. Then stayed on antibiotics for a month.
Back in the spring he had a short bout of illness that was treated with antibiotics.
A month ago he got sick again.
It wasn’t too bad, his lungs sounded clear. He was put on oral antibiotics for 2 weeks.
Things improved…
For a time…
Until they got worse.
Earlier this week the occasional low grade fever crept back up. Lucky for him, he had a CF Clinic appointment. The pulm put him on another round of oral antibiotics – a larger dose over three weeks again. We thought that would be it.
But he felt poorly enough to skip two Cross Country practices, which meant not running in the meet on Saturday.
I should have known then.
I didn’t.
Saturday night, after having been on antibiotics for 48 hours, Denver came to me. Being the teenager he is, he didn’t say much, just that he was coughing and it hurt when he coughed. Plus, he hadn’t been coughing before.
He didn’t verbalize how much it hurt, but I could see it all over his face.
The pain.
We put a call into the on-call.
We were given a night’s reprieve based on how he felt, and were told that unless he gets worse, we could call back in the AM and we’d have a bed ready for us when we did.
And so at 7AM this morning we hustled on in.
Got him admitted.
Tried to work out details with the kids and our one vehicle and making sure the kid and I have all we need here to make it through a week.
At least.
I told him I didn’t want to be here again this year.
Contrary teenagers don’t listen.
by Sarah | Sep 3, 2013 | All About Denver, Cystic Fibrosis, Hospital, Special Needs, The Teenager
As I said a few days ago, Denver is taking a mass media class. His first assignment?
A video montage.
It could be about any subject he wanted, anything across the whole world.
He could have picked Star Trek & its many incarnations and his absolute love of them.
He didn’t.
He picked Cystic Fibrosis.
And this is his video (be aware of your volume, it’s a bit loud):
Music: “Breathe” by Nickelback
Images: Many from his or my camera, the Riley logo & CFF logos are gained from the interwebs.
by Sarah | Jun 19, 2013 | All About Denver, All About Family, All About Kennedy, All About Me, All About Molly, All of Us, Autism, Blogging Life, Cystic Fibrosis, Hospital, Special Needs, Sponsored
With my first child, I never heard of cord blood banking. It was around, but I was young and trying to figure out how I was going to do this whole parenting thing, and it wasn’t a blip on my radar. With my girls, this childbirth thing was old hat, although the larger family freaked me out and I was worried about finances and our small home and all the little details. In both cases I heard of cord blood, I researched it (kind of), and dismissed it. After all, my kids wouldn’t ever be sick. Denver was healthy as a horse (I thought), and my other two children would be the same.
Hindsight.
Now that I have two kids with Cystic Fibrosis, a very young niece with cancer, and have a much broader view of the world thanks to blogging, I wish I’d made that choice.
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The teen was in the hospital recently.
