by Sarah | Dec 13, 2012 | All About Kennedy, All About Molly, All of Us, Autism, Special Needs
[flickr id=”8265585712″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”none”]I remember writing many letters to Santa. Asking for Cabbage Patch Dolls, Ballerina Barbies, and Star Wars figurines (Princess Leia, please…and ewoks).
Santa ended up on the receiving end of so many of my wishes and hopes. Many unmet, and many that were.
Not once did I ever ask Santa for something for my brother.
Ever.
And yet…today as I read these words from my middle child, “Can you get my sister a barbie for her”.
My heart is just filled with pride. Joy. Love.
The past couple of months have been difficult.
Behaviorally.
Emotionally.
The end of the year naturally causes chaos, but outside forces have added so much more to our lives that some days I fear one, or all, of us might just break.
And then I see the kindness hidden under layers of quirks. The love expressed – perhaps with the help of her aide, perhaps all on her own – toward a sister I often have to keep her from abusing.
And for a little while.
Just a few minutes.
There is peace.
by Sarah | Dec 11, 2012 | All About Kennedy, All About Learning, All About Me, All About Molly, Blogging Life, SITS Girls, Sponsored
[flickr id=”8263289615″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”left”]Oh, this box has garnered a lot of excitement in my house this week. It came from BabbaCo, and was so chock-full of good stuff we’re saving half of it until Christmas break when we can take our time and enjoy it.
I couldn’t keep the girls out of it for long, though. We eagerly dove in and took out the Constellation Frame.
[flickr id=”8263288763″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”right”]With 2 sheets of sun-sensitive paper and enough star stickers to overflow the papers, I had to exert some limits on how many stickers to use. Still, the girls had so much fun plotting out where to put them, and insisted on sharing the paper. All the time they were filled with questions and asking about the moon and the constellations – thanks to the coloring pages also provided.
Unfortunately winter hit just before we did this – and gray skies don’t help the paper turn dark so we’re still waiting on our finished product 🙁 To ease the girls disappointment, pulled out the crayons and colored the pages provided.
[flickr id=”8264354868″ thumbnail=”small” overlay=”true” size=”small” group=”” align=”left”]I’ve never seen my girls so focused and quiet for any amount of time before. They wanted their pictures to be perfect. Tongues were bitten in concentration to stay in the lines and make things pretty. Molly decided to make the moon picture she was drawing red like sand, so I suggested that maybe she was coloring it as Mars instead of the moon – setting off a whole new slew of questions.
I used to think about home-schooling, but always worried I’d have no clue where to begin. I wish I’d known about the BabbaBox then. A monthly delivery, always with a theme and relevant projects? With help like this, I might have had more courage to try.
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**This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of BabbaBox. The opinions and text are all mine.**

by Sarah | Dec 8, 2012 | Photography, Scavenger Hunt Sunday
Winter has crept in slow and steady – with rain and warm temps.
All taken w/ Canon Rebel XS.
1. Season
Tis the Season for Bokeh galore
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2. Colorful
The editing phase has begun…it involves much colors & highlighting.
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3. Weather
Warm days and rain are not normal weather for December.
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4. Silhouette
Winter Silhouette’s against a night sky
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5. Calm
Nothing calms like a cup of warm milk.
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by Sarah | Dec 7, 2012 | All About Home, Holidays

*This is a re-post. These cookies are so good they demand numerous re-postings.
I have made a LOT of cookies in my 30+ years. I’ve tasted even more.
When it comes to cutouts, it’s tricky. Too much sugar and it’s just a sugar cookie – too little and they are way too dry.
I used to think my Mom’s were the best…but they always required a ton of frosting to counteract the dryness of the cookie (sorry, Mom) – I stopped making them when I got married and moved out. My aunt’s Christmas cookies, while good – were just never right either (and it’s been so long I can’t remember why).
I tried several recipes in the 8 years I’ve been married – and for the past 5 years I’ve stuck with these. I stumbled on the recipe when I was looking for Polish cookies – and that’s what these were called. BUT, the recipe called for Anise (*gag* *hurl* Blech)…and I was definitely not down with that. So I adapted the cookies to a flavor that was much better.
Let me tell you, this is the easiest dough I have ever worked with and the flavor, when done as I adapted it, is PHENOMENAL.
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The Best Sugar Cutouts
1c. Butter
1c. Shortening
2c. Sugar
5 Large Eggs
7c. Flour
2Tbs. Baking Powder
1/2tsp. Salt
1/2oz. Almond Extract (original recipe called for Anise, this substitution makes deliciousness)
- Cream the Butter, Sugar and Shortening until smooth and fluffy
- Stir in the eggs one at a time until incorporated
- Add almond
- Mix in the first 6 cups of flour
- From here it’s by sight/feel. Add in flour until you get a moist batter. It should seem too sticky to roll, but solid enough to hold together.
- Chill the dough for at least 2 hours. Preferably overnight.
- Once thoroughly chilled, the dough is a dream to work with. Take off a handful and put the remainder back in the fridge while you roll it out for cutting.
- Place a hunk on a floured surface and roll out for cutting (about 1/8″ thick).
- Bake for 12-15 minutes in a 350* oven.
- Frost with frosting of your choice. I love a good buttercream w/ a touch of corn syrup for shine.
- Decorate all out for your holiday fun (and for Santa’s plate).
And that’s it! The strong almond flavor gives and added touch of yum. The cookies are moist enough that you could eat them plain…but really, who wants to? Frosting is 98% of why we eat the cookies, after all…right?
I hope you enjoy them if you try them. My search for the perfect cutout has finally come to a sweet and delicious end!!
by Sarah | Dec 5, 2012 | All About Denver, All About Erik, All About Me, All of Us
In recent months there’s been some trouble in the Cass house.
A horrible little fiend named Insomnia.
Whether stress induced, medication induced, or just popping up to say hello – Insomnia has taken all of us into it’s hold.
For days on end poor Erik suffered from this for several nights in a row. I kept trying to convince him to let me make him a hot angel.
He kept insisting that he couldn’t stand warm milk.
One night I insisted, making him one and handing to him insisting he drink.
Since then it’s become an almost nightly ritual.
So good, and so simple to make – and it knocks you out without using drugs. I love it, and have since I had my first one at Barnes & Noble’s. Of course than I had a steamer and vanilla flavor syrup.
It’s a simple solution, – the next time you have a rough night, you should totally make it.
8 – 12 oz milk (depending on your mug size)
1-2 tsp vanilla (1 or 2 cap-fuls)
2-3 Tbs sugar (or more)
Warm over the stove on med to med-low heat. Don’t let boil, just warm to whatever temperature works for you (I usually go to where I can still stick my finger into it without burning myself – Yeah, real accurate, isn’t it?).
Honestly, do the vanilla and sugar to taste, hubby likes less vanilla, I like more. I never measure accurately. Just put stuff in until it feels right.
Your other option is to buy the flavoring syrup they have for coffee at the grocery store and use that (like we did at Barnes & Noble). I am planning to buy the Caramel syrup next shopping trip and try that for something different!
by Sarah | Nov 27, 2012 | All About Kennedy, All About Molly, Anger Issues, Special Needs
After a pleasant couple of months with the girls (we won’t discuss the teen today) – things are going downhill at a rapid pace.
Molly is starting to fall behind in school. Her comprehension of lessons she used to excel at is slipping, her grades are following suit. I have no idea on her behaviors in school because we missed Parent Teacher conferences in the wake chaos around the teen’s hospital stay. I’ve contacted her teacher in hopes that we can develop new ways to tackle this and keep her going. She’s so smart, I don’t want her to lose that edge.
Kennedy.
Oh, Kennedy.
Her anger has always been an issue. While we’ve been seeing a massive resurgence of her anger – another threat has been lurking, ready to pounce on us out of nowhere.
Lying. Stealing. Manipulation.
I always knew she was a good liar. I kept an extra eye on her when I could.
I don’t know if it’s the recent stresses on the family, or just being in full time school, me going back to work, or just testing limits.
But it’s blown out of proportion.
Over the past two weeks we’ve caught her in two lies, the latest involving stealing. Then lying to me three times about it.
We’re calling the counselor.
She’s having recess revoked as punishment.
Now I just have to figure out how to punish her here at home.
Threats of Santa not coming have no effect.
How do I get through to this one?
What punishment would you suggest? She shares a room with her sister, and some punishments would affect both of them, which isn’t fair to her sister. So keep that in mind.